"Even" also has another experience, which he himself says is more difficult to put into words.
- A trans experience that I have noticed more in recent years is that I find that men more often fuck me without asking first, and especially without a condom. It's quite common in chemsex environments, but I notice that people who, for example, ask their cis-male partners about condoms, still never do it with me. Or, they don't if they're going to fuck my pussy. If it's anal sex, I feel it's treated equally.
"Even" says that he has had several conversations with other trans men about this topic, and feels that his friends have similar experiences. It makes him feel more certain that there is an actual difference in how queer trans men are treated, rather than it being a situation unique to him.
- It seems that many gay cis men don't think about a condom when they're going to fuck a trans guy's pussy. I don't think it's conscious or due to transphobia, but there's definitely a connection there.